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Louis John Finkelmeier entered the peace of heaven on September 2, 2026, surrounded by his loving family. Born on March 13, 1943, in Fort Bragg, North Carolina, to Dr. Louis and Marjorie Finkelmeier, Lou built a life rooted in faith, family, and service.
Lou is survived by the love of his life and devoted wife of 59 years, Carole M. Finkelmeier (née Miller); his cherished children, Traci Finkelmeier of Avon Lake, Ohio, Steven Finkelmeier and his wife, Marsie, of Fishers, Indiana, and J.R. Finkelmeier and his wife, Erin, of Collegeville, Pennsylvania; his grandchildren, of whom he was so proud, Andrew, Bailey, Braden, Miller, and Lauren; and his beloved siblings, James (Maureen) Finkelmeier, Betsy Finkelmeier, Dr. William (Terri) Finkelmeier, and Mary (Dan) Havener. He was preceded in death by his brother, Thomas Finkelmeier, whose wife, Diana, survives him.
Lou earned both his undergraduate degree and his Juris Doctorate from the University of Cincinnati. He began his legal career alongside his uncle, Phil Finkelmeier; together, they later formed Finkelmeier & Finkelmeier Law Firm, which eventually became Finkelmeier Law Firm. His legal practice focused on workers’ compensation and Social Security until his retirement in 2019. During his career, he served on the NFL Players Association panel for the Cincinnati Bengals, and he also represented the Columbus Blue Jackets. A veteran of the U.S. Army Reserve, Lou was asked to act as the legal representative for the Veterans Administration Animal Care & Use Panel. Colleagues and clients alike respected his high standards and his unwavering commitment to doing what was right.
As a devoted member of the community, Lou served on the boards of the Indian Hill School District, the Recreation Commission, the Swim Club, and the Boosters, where he founded and chaired the Indian Hill Antiques Festival. For many years, he coached his sons’ soccer and baseball teams and was a familiar presence at numerous summer and winter swim meets, where he volunteered as a starter. As a coach, Lou’s leadership, encouragement, and mentorship touched many lives and fostered relationships that endure today.
Lou was deeply committed to his Catholic faith, which became central to his life. He was an active member of St. Gertrude Church, serving as sacristan and volunteering at parish events. Lou shared his faith and values with his children through the example he set each day, living with love, service, and devotion.
Lou will be remembered for his honesty, integrity, tireless work ethic, and dry, sarcastic sense of humor that endeared him to many. With a heart of gold, Lou was a constant and generous presence for his family across generations, offering practical help, wise counsel, and quiet encouragement with love and humility. He treasured time with his grandchildren and took great joy in watching them play hockey, soccer, and football, and compete in cheer.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Gertrude Church on Thursday, September 10, 2026, at 1:00 p.m. Family and friends are invited to gather beforehand for a visitation in the Parish Center at noon.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Shriners Children’s Ohio, One Children’s Plaza - 2 West, Dayton, Ohio 45404; the Cincinnati VA Medical Center, 3200 Vine Street, Cincinnati, Ohio 45220; or a charity of your choice.
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